Who are you?

Written by Karl Perera BA, MA, DipLC
November 27th, 2013 | Updated: March 23rd, 2020

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I am means so much. Be who you are.

What message are you giving yourself and others? Is it positive or negative?

Please finish off this sentence, what would you say:

“I am ….(add your own words here)”

If you cannot honestly and confidently say something positive about yourself then how can you build your self esteem, because this will show you have a negative opinion about yourself?

With such a negative opinion of who you are, how will you ever achieve your dreams? Discover 10 tips to achieving your dreams here.

Write out your most common “I am” sentences now. Not those you want to say but the real things you say in your head or to others.

Share your ideas by writing them below, make a comment too if you wish.

Let’s get started on the journey to more self esteem now…

A few Quotes to Inspire you

With motivation you CAN become more confident and build self esteem.

“We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?”
– Marianne Williamson

“It’s never too late to be what you might have been.”
– George Elliot

“I wish I could show you,
When you are lonely or in darkness,
The Astonishing Light
Of your own Being.”


“Do not be one of those who, rather than risk failure, never attempts anything.”
– Thomas Merton

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”– Rumi

Knowing what you want in life is an important and huge step in the right direction, so make sure you understand what drives you and what you want to achieve in your life.

Many people forget the lessons of the past, use them to your advantage. What to learn from the past and what should not be forgotten.

New year, new goals

If it’s New Year and you’re thinking of making a fresh start get inspiration here: discover new self-motivation goals and get started on your journey!

96 thoughts on “Who are you?”

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    I’m tired about my homework,
    I’m tired about my boring university,
    I’m just a guy who want to sleep and play video-games,
    I am friendly,
    I am a student.

  2. Iam unque kind ,caring, loving and hardworking girl. Loving and caring commited wife and mum. learning to be a better person.

  3. i’m simple.
    i’m friendly.
    i’m fun loving.
    i’m out going.
    i’m open.
    i’m thoughtful.
    i’m smile lover.
    i’m enthusiastic.
    i’m me.
    i’m a soul.

  4. For I am fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God. beautiful, loving, caring and going on beyond what is bothering me, looking at the bright side of life, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.amen

  5. I am a beautiful young Mosotho lady,i’m loving,humble,caring,so friendly and smart…i’m proud of myself

  6. i am trying to be a better person, trying to be more compassionate, less judgemental and more patient. also taking care of myself

  7. I am fearfully and wonderful made.I am trustworthy
    I am kind.I am beautiful in my own way. I am smart.I am me.

  8. I’m confused because one moment I feel can take on the world by storm and the next I don’t even want to go out of my room

  9. I do believe in my self and don’t usually follow the flock.Because of this and my self-esteem,I am honestly,an achiever

  10. I m great, loving,pleasant& still involving. I m capable of doing great in any new goal I set my mind upon despite all odds surrounded me. I always draw power from God.

  11. I am the best version of myself, always striving to be a better person every step of my life. I am Solomon.

  12. I am lost, confused.
    I am jenuinly a shy person.
    I am not myself at the moment and I’m realising that I haven’t been myself in a very long time I miss my old self.

  13. I am human, therefore I feel. If I didn’t feel ,I would be medicated. I am happy and serene with who I am. Thank you, Karl, for your words of wisdom!

  14. I am great
    I am a problem solver
    I am creative
    I am a motivational and a public speaker
    I am part of the economy controller of the world

  15. I am just I am. Not good, not bad, not even indifferent. I have found that life is way to short to sweat the small stuff. There are far too many things that happen that I cannot change because they have happened I can only deal with the residual of the act or acts of what has happened. I say this because once something has happened, it is now in the past and the past cannot be changed. And we all have a past good bad and indifferent. I can only pick up the pieces and try to put them back together the best I can.

  16. I feel nobogy is like me in this world, I am the person with unique abilities and qualities.I can love,help and do awesome things for myself as well as others in this universe.

  17. I am generous. I am kind.I am faithful. I am trustworthy. I am open mind. I am hard working.I am perfectionist. I am loving. I am caring. I am decent. I am creative. I am positive. I am a good listener. I am God fearing. I am cool. I am intelligent. I am innocent. I am forgiver. I am realistic. I am social I am motivator. I am grateful and always prefer to remain on giving side. All prays to God for His blessings.

  18. I Am

    I Am Loving and Caring 
    I wonder at the magic of human interaction 
    I hear a roaring of the universe 
    I see the plight of others
    I want to be more outgoing
    I Am Loving and Caring

    I pretend to know more than I do 
    I feel the presence of God and those who have gone before 
    I touch the glory of God 
    I worry that I will outlive the one I love most dear 
    I cry at the thought of loss, past, and future 
    I Am Loving and Caring

    I understand there is a God and I am most grateful 
    I say we are children of God and are blessed to be so 
    I dream of experiencing all that life has to offer 
    I do unto others as I would have them do unto me 
    I pray my health will continue for many years to come 
    I Am Loving and Caring

  19. I am who I am and I hope those who know me recognise my attributes. However, this is no reason to stop trying to grow and improve things in my life.

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