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Positive beliefs, like "I can do it" "I have tremendous resources
to succeed" have been formed through experiences, especially
during your childhood. In the same way, negative or limiting
beliefs, like "I'm worthless" "I don't deserve to succeed" "I
don't have the permission to succeed" have been formed at an
early age.

To succeed at any endeavor, you need to develop and maintain five
powerful beliefs.

You need to literally transform these limiting beliefs and sure
you can, because as they have been learned (through experiences,
ideas…), they can be unlearned, restructured and changed.

Ask, ponder and integrate the answers to the five following key
questions. For each statement, rate your degree of belief from 1
to 5.

1. Do I deserve it?
This has to do with you. This has to do with your feelings of
self-worth. "Do I deserve, do I have the permission to be a
millionaire?" "Do I have the permission to remain centered,
instead of stressed and depressed" Feel this question in your
entire body. This is an essential step that your whole body and
mind need to accept and integrate.

2. Am I capable of doing it?
This next part concerns your plan that you've outlined to achieve
your goal. "Am I capable of taking appropriate action, following
the different steps I set up to succeed?" Once you've answered
that question affirmatively, integrate this in your body and
mind. You don't only need to know it cognitively but also
emotionally. Your body is not just made up of a cognitive mind,
but with emotions and feelings and the whole system needs to
accept it.

3. Is it appropriate for me?
This has to do with the actions and behaviors themselves. "Are
the actions and behaviors I need to take appropriate?" This is an
important question. The actions and behaviors need to be ethical,
practical and down-to-earth. Evaluate and decide if your actions
are appropriate. If not, change them. You don't only want to set
goals in your life, you want to become congruent and live in
harmony with your core values.

4. Is it possible?
Here we need to look at the path to reach your goal. "Am I
convinced that it is possible to achieve my goal with these
appropriate steps?" The path may be long or difficult. You need
to build a strong belief that it is possible to follow the path
that leads to great success. You need to persist and never give
up when it becomes tough.

5. Is the outcome desirable?
This point analyses the outcome itself. "Is the goal in harmony
with who I am?" Again, this is a congruency issue. Define the big
reason why of this goal and you will find that what you really
want is truly desirable.

There are five basic elements to reach any outcome: you, the
plan, the actions and behaviors, the path and the outcome itself.
The belief you will develop for each element will form a winning
belief system that will empower you in achieving anything you
really want out of life.

If you're not happy with the results you have, consider the
following questions. First, what else do I have to know, believe
or do in order to be more confident? Second, do I have a mentor
that can help me for this particular belief? Third, what advice
or message would my mentor give to me?

In doing that for each of the five core beliefs to attaining any
goal, you will build high level of self-confidence.

These winning beliefs will give you more self-esteem and you will
soon become unstoppable.

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