Why does everybody hate me?

How do you know that everybody hates you? Do you think you look unattractive? Maybe someone sees beauty in you and you don't understand this. What about inner beauty? If you always complain and focus on negative things and believe you are horrible physically, how can you expect anybody else to love you, admire you and like you? To get something you must first give it then it will be returned. If you can't love yourself how can you love others and why would you expect them to love you?

These are hard truths and that is why I established my site because in order to love others or become successful you must first like yourself and be happy with who you are.

What about change? You CAN change your appearance and become more attractive, you CAN lose weight and become healthier, you can stop complaining and thinking negatively. You CAN change your attitude to yourself and others. These are ALL choices you can make. To be happier you must make different choices. Please try. My website has so much to offer in the way of help and inspiration but especially I recommend you sign up and get the free self confidence course here http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/?463 and you should also check out the CD Trainer which goes with the course as self confidence is so much! Please let me know how you get on with the course, I'd like your comments.

You may also find this page about self talk helpful so take a look and try to change what you tell yourself over and over again so that you boost your confidence and outlook.