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Feel Attractive Now
by Karl Perera
If you have low self esteem you may not like how you look or you may feel unattractive. This is bad news for your self confidence. You need to act and think differently to feel more attractive.
If you have problems with your self esteem you may have a poor body image and believe yourself to be unattractive or ugly. You may be completely unable to see how attractive you are because of your lack of confidence and negative self image.
What makes a person attractive?
Attractiveness is not just about beauty, it also includes:
Why do you feel unattractive?
There are several reasons why you may feel unattractive. As I have mentioned the number one reason is poor self esteem and lack of confidence. Criticism from others may make you feel very negative and this can increase your poor self esteem.
Perhaps you indulge in self criticism and negative self talk. This constant inner negativity can cause you to feel inferior and unattractive.
If you have suffered from abuse you may have a victim mentality and you may come to feel you are unattractive because of what has happened to you.
You may have suffered rejection in a relationship. You need to deal with this or it can cause you to live in self pity.
If you are in a relationship which is abusive mentally or physically you need to do something. Either end the relationship or seek help to end the abuse (counselling). Read about how relationships affect your self esteem.
How to feel attractive now
There are some things that you can do now to help yourself feel more attractive:
Hope that this short article has been helpful to you. Take a look around at the rest of the site which is filled with information about different aspects of self esteem. I suggest the following pages:
Visit My self esteem FAQ page - answers to popular questions visitors ask me about self esteem and how to improve it.
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